Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Generous Spirit

Here is some advice for those of you who are considering matrimony: Do not marry anyone who is not generous with their words and deeds.

Whether you realize it or not, the person you are dating will never treat you better than they do right now. You are seeing the best side of them you will ever see.

If they are withholding words you need to hear - words of appreciation, affirmation, and encouragement - supportive, complimentary words - my advice is to walk away now. Trust me, no matter what he or she promises, it is not going to get better. Their words are likely to become harsher, more critical, and more severe from time to time.

The same is true for their deeds. They may have more money to buy things later, but they are not likely to become a more generous person.

Don't make your life hard by hooking up with a person who does not have a generous spirit.

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