If you want to be a person of prayer, pray.
If you want to be a generous person, start giving away things that your flesh says you need to hold on to.
If you want to be a student of the scriptures, read and study the holy books.
If you want to be a contemplative person, then meditate. It is not about calling yourself spiritual or appearing to be spiritual.
It's about doing spirituality. Remember, spiritual is as spiritual does.